In Memory of Dr. Kim Gregson...
Ah, I just learned the news today, and I wish there was a better forum to post this, but I need to tell this story...
My most influential college professor Kim Gregson passed away yesterday after a long battle with cancer, and it's hitting me more than I would have imagined last Thursday when I saw all her grinning Alaskan Disney cruise pics. We'd been out of touch lately, but the news prompted me to go through old correspondence when I came across a letter of recommendation I wrote for her tenure that got me bawling for a little while. It's been on my mind since, and I feel the need to share my wonderful story to commemorate this great woman.....
Few would have realized it, if they knew anything about the strong professional relationship Kim and I formed, but we got off to a rocky start. My first class with her was Quantitative Research my sophomore semester, where we used video games as a conduit to practice research skills.
The class was unusual (taking turns between playing Katamari Damacy in class, counting out how many overly-sexualized images versus non-sexualized images of women we saw in video game magazines, and writing my thesis on the addictive properties of MMPORGS...) but always interesting and engaging.... and just, fun. Then tragically, a fellow IC student and co-worker of mine passed away right before finals week.
As a result, many of my finals suffered and my final paper for Kim’s Quantitative class never got past the rough draft stage. Some of my other professors were willing to look past this but Kim wasn't.
At first I was outraged. Hadn't I shown how good of a student I was the rest of the semester? Didn't I always get As, do the extra credit assigned, and participate in class? Why did I end up with a C for the semester? But as the pain and confusion of death subsided, I was able to think about the resulting situation critically.
I realized the truth was that yes, I did deserve such a grade. Kim gave me ample time to work things out. The final project had been assigned at the beginning of the semester; she had been providing mini-assignments along the way to help us with it; and even offered to allow me to hand in just a completed rough draft of the paper. She went out of her way to give me chances to succeed and I let her down. I did in fact deserve a C.
But thankfully that wasn't the end of the story.
One of the final group papers my two friends and I had written in Quantitative had been accepted into a conference, and she applied for all the grants to let the three of us all go at no charge to us.
And though I expected it to be a little awkward, it wasn't. Kim knew I was good student, she had decided I had potential.
Within two semesters, I was back in her class again - two of them: Qualitative Research and a three mini-course series on filmmaking she hosted via teleconference with the students in L.A. (how cool).
During our Qualitative class together, she was approached by religious studies professor Dr. Rachel Wagner, who was interested in studying religious imagery in video games. Kim immediately thought of the work we were doing in Second Life and asked me to join in on the project. (See Kim's take on one of our in-game presentations here.)
She hired me as a research assistant, and we worked together for six months to produce a great research project that we presented at two panels for the April 2007 Joint Conference of the
National Popular Culture and American Culture Associations in Boston.
Dr. Wagner's work featuring our research was eventually published in Eric Mazur's 2010 edition of God in the Details, in a chapter entitled "Our Lady of Persistent Liminality: Virtual Church, Cyberspace, and Second Life." All thanks to Kim.
Needless to say, during this time our bond grew not only professionally, but she became a dear close friend and mentor.
The Park School needed such a person in the department who was willing to take risks with unconventional material, who could stay on top of the current trends in media and technology, and had so much invested in the well-being of her students. Kim was certainly such a person. She was always innovative in her coursework, which is crucial when you work in such an ever-changing field as communications. She was always available to her students, and she set high standards that she insisted we (and knew we could) meet.
Overall, Kim has been one of the professors who made the greatest impact on me at my time at Ithaca College and beyond. Kim was an amazingly intelligent, caring individual who was an extremely valuable mentor to have, and I will miss her life dearly. I am not religious and don't believe in afterlife, but Kim, where ever you are... I hope you've found your Second Life :) And forever, thank you.
*Edited from original. Original post with comments on Facebook.